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  • TSE 10:28 am on August 28, 2014 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: , honesty, integrity, so media,   

    Don't Commit SoMedia Suicide 

    #TXNL is for everyone; males, females, exes, nexts, friends, and haters. We have 10+ affinity groups in addition to Single Remedies, so there is a place for every genuine person.

    When you are no longer single, you may want to join Interpersonal Remedies. But before you get to that point, it would be wise to share the positive, encouraging and life changing information available in #TXNL with anyone you may be interested in getting serious with. After all, if you aren’t like minded you’ll want to know that sooner rather than later.

    What you definitely should not do is try to sever ties with friends online and disappear from existing circles to hide your current life from your potential future mate. You will be found out. But not only that, neither they or you really knows what you’re getting if it’s sudden and based on deception of any kind.

    It is hysterical how many men over the years, have suddenly updated their relationship status after asking me out. Some folks even go so far as to unfriend you, as though your mutual friends aren’t going to tell it all. Lucky for them I had no interest in blasting anyone online for the sake of embarrassing them or they would have been done.

    I was relieved I didn’t fall for it each time… I don’t want anyone who’s unsure to change their relationship status for me. Do you?

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    Let’s discuss it… https://collaborateusa.com/ecosystem/stream/199

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  • TSE 11:57 pm on November 18, 2013 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: , , connections, , , expectations, , , , , honesty, , , , , , tips   

    #LivingSugarFree | It’s Not That Serious 

    I’ve noticed that some grown men, because of their own hurt and past experiences, treat the women they’re attracted to like robots. Women are not all the same, and yet courtship is not rocket science. These are  mere observations, and men are definitely not all the same either. It’s just not that serious until it’s serious.

    1. Just because you think I’m sexy or fine or can have whatever guy I want, doesn’t mean I don’t have feelings.
    2. Just because you think I have the potential to break y
      Rain Heart #Quote

      People make time for what’s most important to them, not excuses.

      our heart doesn’t mean you should try to get me first.

    3. Just because I stop and pay special attention to you, doesn’t mean I’m obsessed or want to marry you. (My favorite)
    4. Just because you think a certain way about a women, doesn’t define who they are.
    5. Just because someone said bad things about you does not define who you are.

    In any relationship between humans, quality communication is a key to success. Be honest about your intentions and have standards but don’t place expectations on others.

    Think of a time you found yourself caught up in a situation, feeling that more was expected of you, then you were willing to give? Now think about whether you were people pleasing or making empty promises. Was the pressure self inflicted?

    Take charge of your life by being more true to yourself and others… by being honest with the world about your expectations for yourself and what you are willing to do or not do to get there. Owning who you are and what you desire, gives you the freedom to receive all you’re hoping for. In every situation be comfortable with who you are. Knowing that if it’s for you, you don’t have to figure it out.

    Let’s discuss it… http://xeeme.com/AndréaRaquel

     
  • TSE 12:45 am on March 19, 2013 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: , , , honesty, , , , , slow walk,   

    What the heck is a “Slow Walk”? 

    Do you know what it means to ‘slow walk’? No not down the isle as in a bridal march. Apparently this is a common term of endearment among single men to describe the process of dating the woman of your dreams and a back up woman just in case.

    Join #TXNL Interpersonal Remedies

    Join #TXNL Interpersonal Remedies

    To put it plainly apparently many men are aware of the high standards of the woman of their dream and unwilling to change to live up to those expectations. So they get a ‘side chic’ to pass time until the woman of their dreams is ready or willing to lower her standards; or in the event that she moves on.

    What this looks like in every day life if you’re not privy to the boys club technique is a person who seems to be single and playing the field or “just friends” with someone then all of a sudden they marry someone else. Many of the men in question are not the type to just get married easily so it is evident in these instances that there has been an ongoing serious relationship that they were keeping secret.

    I’ve seen this a lot lately and it’s very disturbing to me. It takes the fun out of dating when you have to wonder if it’s a complete waste of time or if you’re being deceived. You know the signs: the person is unavailable for no good reason, prefer texting to phone calls, and is secretive with their personal life and how they spend their time. When you ask them what they did for the weekend, they get defensive and accuse you of being controlling or jealous instead of thinking you just want to see how their weekend was.

    Join #TXNL Single Remedies

    Join #TXNL Single Remedies

     

    Dating doesn’t have to be stressful and neither does finding selecting the right one.

    Let me help put an end to the confusion.

    May I present to you:

     

    The Living Sugar Free Dating Rules of Engagement

    1. Be honest about your feelings. If you don’t like the person romantically, don’t try to lead them on just to secure you have someone to occupy your time.
    2. If there is someone you’re serious about, let them know and ask them to work with you on what is not right. Don’t leave it to chance that they know how you feel.
    3. It’s not your right or your place to interfere with someone else’s future. Don’t waste anyone’s time making them think there is a future for you and them, if you know that there is not.
    4. Be willing to change. If the person of your dreams has higher standards than you, it’s time to upgrade yourself. Take a class, read a book and then let them know you did it.
    5. Don’t water down the dating pool by pretending to be single when you’re not. Single means, not obligated or committed; not engaged; not going steady; not girlfriend and boyfriend. You can do what you want and be honest about it with no repercussions.
    6. Treat people in such a way that you can remain friends after dating; deception is a sure way to ruin that.
    7. If you’re really single, “may the best man/woman win.” Nothing like a little honest and open competition to keep people focused.
    8. If you decide to tie the not, all people you are seeing romantically should be well aware before you make the big announcement. How embarrassing to the ones you’ve left hanging when their friends ask whatever happened to you.
    9. If you plan on having a long and happy marriage start with the right foundation and ‘slow walking’ is not it. It will probably come back to bite you in the end.
    10. This is by no means an exhaustive list. Please add your own rules in the comments… and when all else fails, use your best judgement.

    If you’re on the receiving end of such news, all I can say is kick the dust off your feet and keep it movin’. If someone you’re investing in up and gets married out of the blue to someone else; they aren’t worth your grief.

     
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