Dear Fatal-Attraction, you have become obsessed with someone who can never be yours. This was foolish but is an easy trap when you are lonely. I say obsessed because one sided love is really only lust and control. I say lonely because you don’t have to fall into desperation just because you are single. You must admit this to yourself. Focus on loving self and people in general before you pursue anyone. Having a healthy respect for yourself and others will keep things in perspective the next time around. Today is Independence Day, get some!